so… i went out with this girl recently… well last tuesday to be exact…
and i was iniitally just looking to hang out, make some friends, get to know her. etc…
i have kinda stopped dating as its really tiring and i’m tired of all the problems and expectations associated with it….
So…. she started showing me romantic notions and flirting… so i flirted back… and then we were talking about how we found each other attractive.
we were a tad bit intimate, but nothing spectacular (just holding hands and whatnot)…
walked her home…
next day… she calls me up… drunk… at 10 pm… asking me to go to her place…
normally i would. Hell, why wouldn’t i enjoy having sex with a girl i just met who’s drunk? :))
but… you see… i JUST got this game … Metal Gear Solid 4. and i was piss drunk, smelling like sulfur and sweat, with pizza hanging out of my mouth, unshowered for 2 days… and quite bloated.. while playign this game. i was in no condition for any sex-capades…
so i politely refused, and said i can’t wait to see her friday and that i do indeed miss her…
thursday… she ignores me.
friday… nothing. finally… 2 hours before are supposed to meet… she emails me she feels we have no real connection, and would prefer not to see me at all…..
Apparently, if a guy rejects a girl… he’s a jerk for being incensitive and cold…
if a girl rejects a guy… he’s STILL the jerk… as he probably pushed her too much and she had to say no to get him off her.
either way… men are the jerks it seems.