Here’s the thing with honesty… First, you have to know YOURSELF so well that you know what you want and need in life. Then you need to convey that to those around you clearly. Not for some moral lofty reason. as many of you know… i’m an opportunist, corrupt to the core, and VERY selfish. but i do good things… and always preach that what goes around comes around.
here’s the deal. you wanna have some fun? in life , everyone does. #yolo or carpe diem right? ok… well you also wanna die alone? of course not. EVERYONE wants someone to experience life with. so…. learn what really makes you happy. then find the person that can enjoy it with you. think of this… you meet 100 people. 99 of those people probably WON’T like you if you a freak into group sex fetishes. But… that 1 person…. WILL not only like you… but will enjoy life with you. THAT person will do things with you… similar hobbies… share life with you.
if you decieve people.. to get something temporary from them… you won’t know which one likes you for YOU. you will get all 100 people to spend a minute with you…. but none will stay… and you will die alone. by being honest… to yourself… and to the world… no matter how eccentric or crazy or weird you might be… you JUST might find that 1 person… that is just as crazy as you. and have a partner for life. that can stand by you. hand in hand.